So how to find True Love? While you are pondering over the question and wondering if it is only you who are facing this situation, realize that you are not alone.
In fact, this question is as old as life itself. And while there be many who would suggest the dating game and numerous online dating sites, you may actually need to be prepared to go on a journey of self-development to find true love. Here are some tips that can help you find exactly what you are looking for.
The first step is to stop looking for true love. This may sound crazy given the fact that all your life you have been taught that you really have to work hard for whatever you wish to achieve. However, in the matters of the heart, the rules of the world don’t apply. So as said above, stop looking. The more you look for love, the more it will elude you.
The moment you stop looking, the magic will happen. This is because love is acceptance and not just acceptance of the other but the acceptance of yourself as you are. When you try, you are actually trying to fit in with some pre-conceived or conventional notion of love or focussing on how to win the love of another person. When you can’t accept yourself as you are, it will be very difficult for someone else to love you either. So first accept yourself and then like a magnet you will attract love. The saying may sound clichéd but it never fails to get people on the right track: Smile and the world will smile with you, cry and no one will cry with you.
Then again, you have to look within and answer the question, why exactly are you trying to find love? Is it because you find yourself incomplete without another person? If this is the case, then it is doubtful that you will ever find love. This is because nature has already made us whole. You first need to look within, find your strength, be whole as a person and then only will you find true love. Remember love is not synonymous with dependency.
Our Love Psychics can offer you psychic advice in finding love and give you insight into your future love-life and relationships!So you really need to look within to understand what exactly you are looking for – love or security. Security means taking strength from the other. But true love is about giving and not taking. Be in a position to give and you will find many takers for your love. In fact you won’t have to find love – love will find you itself. So the golden rule is be happy and at peace with yourself and then only will you be able to be happy with someone else.
Participate in activities that you enjoy. When you do something that you enjoy, you are in a way focussing on yourself. The body needs food and in the same way our soul needs happiness and we are happy when we do things we are meant to do. When you focus on yourself, you are actually working on making yourself whole and happy.
So know what you are and then decide on the type of mate you want. You can’t really find happiness with a person who is not in equilibrium with you. If you are at two different levels, there is no way your relationship will work.
The next thing is to be confident. Focussing on yourself, your goals and dreams will also help to build up confidence. Self-confidence is one of the greatest stimultants, in fact far ahead of physical attraction. Confident people are more outgoing and alluring allowing themselves the opportunity to meet new people.
Finally, laughter is the best medicine so rest, relax, smile and don’t stress yourself, trying to find true love. Love yourself and love with find you.
And if you are still not sure enough, may be you could consider seeking Love Psychic Readings from our genuine and compassionate psychics. Our psychics can help you over come all obstacles in helping you develop your personality and confidence so that you are ready to find true love.